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Date Smarter in Midlife: Trust Your Inner GPS & Find Lasting Love with Sandy Weiner

In this fun and empowering episode of The Midlife Makeover Show, Wendy Valentine sits down with Sandy Weiner — Chief Love Officer at Last First Date, internationally known TEDx speaker, and author of three books on dating and relationships — to talk about what it really takes to find love in midlife. 

Sandy gets refreshingly real about the dating mistakes we make, from the attraction trap to the fantasy-attachment spiral, and why the key to finding lasting love isn’t finding the right person first — it’s becoming the right person first. From setting boundaries on a first date to discovering your core values through your biggest pet peeves, this episode is packed with practical, no-nonsense wisdom for anyone navigating love after 40.

What You’ll Learn

  • What’s truly different about dating in midlife vs. your 20s and 30s — and why that’s actually a very good thing
  • How to uncover your core values using Sandy’s simple “what annoys me” method
  • Sandy’s practical “Boundaries in Your Back Pocket” approach for communicating your needs with confidence on dates
  • The attraction trap — and why chemistry can make us overlook major red flags
  • How to know when you’re truly ready to date again after divorce or loss — and what to do if you’re not sure yet

👉 Connect with Sandy!

Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate/ 

Website: http://lastfirstdate.com/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/ 

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